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ChrisJones
10-09-2007, 02:26 PM
(offers a beer to Jonhomeowner)

Sam Adams
BEERnBRATWURST
10-09-2007, 02:36 PM
(offers a beer to Jonhomeowner)

Sam Adams


Just curious....why the 360 degree turn? Sounds like your trying to get chummy with the "homophobe" you spent 8 pages venting on. The very least you could do is get out the expensive beer......
ChrisJones
10-09-2007, 02:39 PM
It was a battle of wits, like a chess game. Nothing personal.
jonhomeowner
10-09-2007, 02:40 PM
No thanks on the Sam Adams.

I don't see what offering a beer has to do with wits. Or, in fact, what any of your posts have to do with wit at all.
ChrisJones
10-09-2007, 02:41 PM
dont say i didn't offer
RickyS
10-09-2007, 02:56 PM
(offers a beer to Jonhomeowner)

Sam Adams You don't have enough for everybody?:confused:
That's my favorite beer. FREE BEER!
ChrisJones
10-09-2007, 02:58 PM
You don't have enough for everybody?:confused:
That's my favorite beer. FREE BEER!here, have jon's
Lady Marina
10-09-2007, 03:13 PM
Tee-hee it'll never end. :) I love life.
codebluecary
10-09-2007, 03:57 PM
Nice try Chris,I`ll take John`s beer!!!
BEERnBRATWURST
10-09-2007, 04:35 PM
(offers a beer to Jonhomeowner)

Sam Adams


Didn't you say you were an AA graduate? On the straight and narrow? Did you fall off the wagon?
Nips
10-10-2007, 01:43 AM
that's why the thread title is 'i'm drinking again'. as if jon drove him back to it.
Smooth
10-10-2007, 10:00 AM
Why would Jon refuse an obvious "peace offering"? Maybe he simply doesn't want peace.

If the boat isn't rocking then life isn't as exciting.
jonhomeowner
10-10-2007, 10:15 AM
that's why the thread title is 'i'm drinking again'. as if jon drove him back to it.
I'm quite shocked... This is new for me, actually. I DON'T believe I've ever drove somebody to drink or use drugs before!

Why would Jon refuse an obvious "peace offering"? Maybe he simply doesn't want peace.
Or, like I said, I don't like Sam Adams.
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 11:22 AM
I think everyone here needs some good sex.. :)
ChrisJones
10-10-2007, 12:00 PM
Didn't you say you were an AA graduate? On the straight and narrow? Did you fall off the wagon?

alcohol wasn't what I went there for...
jonhomeowner
10-10-2007, 12:14 PM
I think everyone here needs some good sex.. :)
You offering?
VIXXEN
10-10-2007, 12:38 PM
wow, Jude actually likes somebody....
Smooth
10-10-2007, 01:56 PM
I think everyone here needs some good sex.. :)

I've been having so much, I need this place to balance me out.
Smooth
10-10-2007, 02:02 PM
Or, like I said, I don't like Sam Adams.

So if he had offered something more to your liking you would have accepted?
jonhomeowner
10-10-2007, 02:18 PM
So if he had offered something more to your liking you would have accepted?
Yes.
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 02:22 PM
I've been having so much, I need this place to balance me out.

Lucky you. Haha
Smooth
10-10-2007, 02:42 PM
You'd think I would get sick of it.

But no. I can't get enough.
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 03:00 PM
Oh how I miss it. Sigh... I guess you could say I'm sexually frustrated.
Smooth
10-10-2007, 03:02 PM
That is surprising. I would be more then willing to help you out, but I have a family so I can't.

:(
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 03:12 PM
Haha, well thanks anyways. I solve my own problems though.. but I must say it gets old...if ya know what I mean.. which I'm sure you do, because that couldnt be more obvious :) hah
jonhomeowner
10-10-2007, 03:44 PM
Haha, well thanks anyways. I solve my own problems though.. but I must say it gets old...if ya know what I mean.. which I'm sure you do, because that couldnt be more obvious :) hah
It does get old, doesn't it? I'll be right over to help you out.
Smooth
10-10-2007, 03:53 PM
Haha, well thanks anyways. I solve my own problems though.. but I must say it gets old...if ya know what I mean.. which I'm sure you do, because that couldnt be more obvious :) hah

There's plenty of ways to keep it interesting.
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 04:11 PM
It does get old, doesn't it? I'll be right over to help you out.

Haha thank you sir :)
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 04:12 PM
There's plenty of ways to keep it interesting.

Intresting or not, I'm not gonna stop.. I have urges, and I go with it. I just think it'd be more fun with a friend hahaha
Smooth
10-10-2007, 04:13 PM
Intresting or not, I'm not gonna stop.. I have urges, and I go with it. I just think it'd be more fun with a friend hahaha


.....four hands are better than two.
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 04:26 PM
Haha, so true!
Smooth
10-10-2007, 04:40 PM
I do admit, the same person can get a little boring after a decade.
ChrisJones
10-10-2007, 04:41 PM
love and marriage, they go together like a horse and carriage
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 04:49 PM
Yeahh, i believe that. Haha. I get tired of guys after a month or two.
ChrisJones
10-10-2007, 04:52 PM
just be patient and you will come across a good one.
Lady Marina
10-10-2007, 05:06 PM
just be patient and you will come across a good one.

I am being very patient. I'm in no hurry.
Smooth
10-10-2007, 05:10 PM
You should be, the marriage police are going to find you.
jonhomeowner
10-10-2007, 05:20 PM
Haha thank you sir :)
I aim to please.

And I please to... Eh, I got nothing.
ChrisJones
10-11-2007, 06:43 AM
Eh, I got nothing.

Holy shit can I frame this moment in time?
Lady Marina
10-11-2007, 06:50 AM
I was a little shocked too.. :)
jonhomeowner
10-11-2007, 08:31 AM
Holy shit can I frame this moment in time?
I don't know why you'd want to.
jonhomeowner
10-11-2007, 08:31 AM
I was a little shocked too.. :)
And awed?
Lady Marina
10-11-2007, 10:57 AM
A wee bit my dear.
Smooth
10-11-2007, 04:38 PM
....boring.
Lady Marina
10-11-2007, 05:36 PM
So fix it?
Sebastian
10-11-2007, 05:42 PM
stupid thread
DEVIN 75
10-13-2007, 09:04 AM
Oh how I miss it. Sigh... I guess you could say I'm sexually frustrated.

That's criminal!
Lady Marina
10-14-2007, 07:05 AM
That's criminal!

I agree.
Noodles
10-14-2007, 01:41 PM
Why did you decide to start drinking again? Was there some particular event that lead to your decision to begin drinking? Can you remember how you thought about alcohol when you decided to quit? What did it feel like when you were sober?

PEACE LOVE EMPATHY
-Noodles
BEERnBRATWURST
10-14-2007, 01:51 PM
Why did you decide to start drinking again? Was there some particular event that lead to your decision to begin drinking? Can you remember how you thought about alcohol when you decided to quit? What did it feel like when you were sober?

PEACE LOVE EMPATHY
-Noodles


He tried to battle wits with jonhomeowner and it knocked him off the wagon..... read the "myspaces??" thread from the beginning and you will discover what drove him back to the bottle....classic.
Nips
10-14-2007, 02:34 PM
hahaha, noodles that's brilliant. right in there with the serious analytical questions. he was kidding around, ya goof.
ChrisJones
10-14-2007, 07:39 PM
Why did you decide to start drinking again? Was there some particular event that lead to your decision to begin drinking? Can you remember how you thought about alcohol when you decided to quit? What did it feel like when you were sober?

PEACE LOVE EMPATHY
-Noodles
I drink like a few times a week.

I happened to be drinking again and bored so...here's the thread
Nips
10-15-2007, 02:05 AM
ah, you werent joking. how sad.
Noodles
10-15-2007, 08:34 AM
I drink like a few times a week.

I happened to be drinking again and bored so...here's the thread

Well, I know you mentioned previously that you were in rehab. I think you mentioned you weren't in rehab for recovering from an addiction to alcohol.

The thing is even if you went to rehab for cocaine, if you quite snorting...and just start drinking, your just substituting one addictive substance for another.

Therefore, what are you accomplishing? Quit drinking...quit doing drugs. You'll realize how being sober is really a beautiful thing.

PEACE LOVE EMPATHY
-Noodles
ChrisJones
10-15-2007, 09:06 AM
Well, I know you mentioned previously that you were in rehab. I think you mentioned you weren't in rehab for recovering from an addiction to alcohol.

The thing is even if you went to rehab for cocaine, if you quite snorting...and just start drinking, your just substituting one addictive substance for another.

Therefore, what are you accomplishing? Quit drinking...quit doing drugs. You'll realize how being sober is really a beautiful thing.

PEACE LOVE EMPATHY
-Noodles
You see I'm a compassionate empathetic person. I put the needs of others as high priorities. Unfortunately I'm quite hard on myself and blame myself for others mistakes, perhaps because I felt I could have warned them or saved them from themselves.

Once I considered working on an ambulance only to discover I'm much too self destructive in my noble quests to save the world. This self destructive impulses have lead me down some dark paths. My friends bailed me out of these spots. This further supports my cause that you should help others when they need it.

I don't believe casual drinking is a substitute for my prior daily addiction. it does make me feel like shit physically and mentally sometimes. Overall it's an enjoyable experience for me to relax and drink or share a drink with other.

I could probably live without alcohol just fine. Like any gift the earth has given us alcohol can be abused. It's up to you to take these gifts and be responsible. There are plenty of people in my life that have been destroyed by alcohol amongst other things. It was their weakness. But it isn't mine. And I won't make it so. I learned from their mistakes.

I still feel a lot of guilt in my life. Sometimes self inflicted injuries feel good. Not as an escape but as a means of gaining balance. I look forward to living a long healthy life. I believe in balance.

Lol noodles, look at this thing you made me type
ChrisJones
10-15-2007, 09:53 AM
ah, you werent joking. how sad.I was joking. Not sad.
GunStreetGirl
10-15-2007, 10:11 AM
You see I'm a compassionate empathetic person. I put the needs of others as high priorities. Unfortunately I'm quite hard on myself and blame myself for others mistakes, perhaps because I felt I could have warned them or saved them from themselves.

Once I considered working on an ambulance only to discover I'm much too self destructive in my noble quests to save the world. This self destructive impulses have lead me down some dark paths. My friends bailed me out of these spots. This further supports my cause that you should help others when they need it.

I don't believe casual drinking is a substitute for my prior daily addiction. it does make me feel like shit physically and mentally sometimes. Overall it's an enjoyable experience for me to relax and drink or share a drink with other.

I could probably live without alcohol just fine. Like any gift the earth has given us alcohol can be abused. It's up to you to take these gifts and be responsible. There are plenty of people in my life that have been destroyed by alcohol amongst other things. It was their weakness. But it isn't mine. And I won't make it so. I learned from their mistakes.

I still feel a lot of guilt in my life. Sometimes self inflicted injuries feel good. Not as an escape but as a means of gaining balance. I look forward to living a long healthy life. I believe in balance.

Lol noodles, look at this thing you made me type


Sometimes when you are an overly empathetic person, it gets to be overwhelming. Watching everyone else around you destroying themselves, brings you down right a long with them.

I, more often than not, want to "save" everyone from themselves, and help whenever I possibly can, because it makes me feel of some worth and value. And honestly, I think it helps take my mind off my own disasters.

I've also struggled for several years with addictions. I was in rehab, and Intensive Outpatient Programs. I know how they preach that when you are an "addict" you will never have the control to moderate those addictions. I dont really agree with that. I drink occasionally, I know when to stop, and I know when I am using it as a "coping mechanism". But sometimes I just want to stop thinking so much and relax, even if it's just for a few hours.
ChrisJones
10-16-2007, 03:39 PM
everybody to a degree has their secrets, addictions, and/or sick obsessions
DEVIN 75
10-16-2007, 09:05 PM
everybody to a degree has their secrets, addictions, and/or sick obsessions

Translation: "Everybody" has a vice whether they choose to share, admit or expose it. Life would be a bit boring and dull without them. I'm not speaking of addiction or distractions either. I'm speaking of a chosen arena for emulsion.
ChrisJones
10-17-2007, 01:27 PM
Translation: "Everybody" has a vice whether they choose to share, admit or expose it. Life would be a bit boring and dull without them. I'm not speaking of addiction or distractions either. I'm speaking of a chosen arena for emulsion.
Bingo.
I speak in metaphors sometimes but you hit the nail on the head.