Common behavior symptoms seen in Oppositional Defiant Disorder include: Losing one’s temper// Arguing with adults// Actively defying requests// Refusing to follow rules// Deliberately annoying other people// Testing limits// Blaming others for one's own mistakes or misbehavior// Being touchy, easily annoyed// Being easily angered, resentful, spiteful, or vindictive.// Speaking harshly, or unkind when upset// Seeking revenge//